We all got used to thinking men are forthright in their statements.
And it’s one of the keys that definitely determines the difference
between men and women. Of course, you may consider yourself a girl with a
guy’s mind and you would rather hang out with guys because girls are
complicated etc. Immediacy and simplicity make our life and relationship
much easier, but what if I told you, men don’t always say what they
think, especially when it comes to serious relationships.
Yes, guys don’t always express their opinion on what they want from a
relationship. But why keep it a secret? The only answer that may somehow
be bound up with truth is that men don’t know about their own desires
until they get them from women at first. Subconsciousness plays a huge
role in this aspect, and sometimes you just need to do some research to
literally invade a guy’s mind.
Some of these actions may not just grab more of guy’s attention, but
also improve your relationship and make your man a lot happier. You will
feel the appreciation in no time for sure! Let’s learn the main things
each guy actually wants his girl to do, but doesn’t tell.
1. Show him your respect. This is the number one
thing all guys secretly need from relationship, but not all girls really
understand the meaning of it. If you want to show your boyfriend you
respect him, take action and prove that his thoughts, decisions and
feelings matter.
2. Ask him for help. You are a strong independent woman
and can deal with stuff: 4 bags with groceries from your car to home
without a comeback; a quick electric kettle repair; a laptop survival
procedure and more and more. Stop all this madness and let him prove
he’s a man in the house. There’s nothing more to say.
3. Give him compliments. Yes, not only girls deserve to
hear pleasant things, there’s a different side. Do not forget that
compliments should be sincere: show him your appreciation with nice
words.
4. Be a friend. Relationship is about support. Even the
strongest man needs to be sure someone will be there for him if he
fails mightily. Feeling supported is one of the comforting things men
secretly want. Show him that you’re proud of him and you will get a
surprising reaction!
5. Make an effort. Let your man know you are trying
hard enough to look your best for him. Put some makeup on and choose
your outfit wisely before you meet each other.
6. Ask for advice. When you’re not sure about something
important, it’s a great way to show your man his opinion matters. A man
secretly wants to know that his ideas matter in your life and that you
take his feedback seriously.
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